I didn’t even know about these arrangement sites until I moved out here.
I had no idea people went on this site as a younger guy looking for women with money.
Then I saw one or two stories that highlighted a similar situation that I’m in, and I thought, well, let’s try to give it a shot.".
When you’re going on an Arrangement date, it’s like, something could potentially happen here.I’ve also been to Miami and Cancun with her, and we have one more vacation planned."How did these terms come about? Obviously, she’s paying for my apartment and my gym membership, and I have genuinely a good time with this woman. I think if you take out the financial gain from it, I would still want to see her."The rent was specifically an offer from her; she was the first one to throw that idea out there. But I don’t know how that emotion or feeling would change if there wasn’t a financial gain as well."Would you ever do the reverse? "My immediate response is yes, but I don’t know how I would feel about paying for a 24-year-old’s apartment somewhere. I have no problem looking into that."I really don’t think it’s any different from going on a regular dating platform.So this is a completely opposite approach for me."I don’t feel like every person I date going forward is going to have to pay for me, and I've definitely felt weird sometimes.I have gotten more comfortable with the arrangement at this point, but I understand how it looks from the outside."Did you offer to pay on your first Seeking Arrangement date? I did the wallet reach on both those dates, and I genuinely would have paid, but now I don’t even do the wallet reach anymore."Tell me about your first date from the site."I didn’t really know what I was doing.